So I know I haven't been so successful on my 30days activities but I will this time. Starting tmw, I'm going to give up coffee. Yes that's going to be super uber hard but I think I can do it. I'll be giving up coffee and working out at least 2 hours a day. :D Sounds good?!
Well have a great weekend!!
Friday, April 30, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Is chivalry dead?
For those that doesn't know what chivalry is, it's a group of "knights" or gentlemen. So where are these "gentle"men?
So I was in the cultural center on campus and talking with YangKia about Xue about our argument last night. Then Nancy raises her voice to her boyfriend(who's on the phone with her). We both look at her shocked because we've never seen her that way.
"Why are you gonna get mad at me when I say LilCrazed is hot! Of course he's hot but that doesn't mean I gonna leave you for him or something. He's coming to Epic to perform and stuff! Don't make me mad because my birthday is right around corner and I don't need this shit!!"
So why does most guys get "jealous" or defensive when you say that another guy is "hot"? I mean to tell the truth, if a guy was checking out a woman I'd be like, "Yea she's pretty cute/pretty," and hey if she's really hot, then of course I'll say she's hot. Why do guys have to get so defensive about this?
I even told Yangkia that at times, I have a guy friend that says that this celebrity, whose a guy, is pretty hot. I first thought it was funny but then hey! It's cool to know that you find some guys very attractive. That doesn't mean you're into stuff about that. You're just realizing their outer beauty as many other women do to other attractive women in the world. Then we both came to a consensus that this guy friend could and possibly metrosexual but whatever. Then he said that I should be more girly. How in the world can I get even more girly than this, right? So I asked, "How do I become more girly?"
"You could act more blonde."
"So only blondes are girly girls?"
"Well guys find blonds more attractive."
"But don't most people stereotype blondes as dumb. So are you implying that girly girls are dumb."
And so the conversation about masculinity and better wives and then Yangkia didn't want to argue no more. A question that went constantly through my head was, why do some guys act so needy now? Are gender roles in relationships turning around now?
Gosh It has been a really long day.
So I was in the cultural center on campus and talking with YangKia about Xue about our argument last night. Then Nancy raises her voice to her boyfriend(who's on the phone with her). We both look at her shocked because we've never seen her that way.
"Why are you gonna get mad at me when I say LilCrazed is hot! Of course he's hot but that doesn't mean I gonna leave you for him or something. He's coming to Epic to perform and stuff! Don't make me mad because my birthday is right around corner and I don't need this shit!!"
So why does most guys get "jealous" or defensive when you say that another guy is "hot"? I mean to tell the truth, if a guy was checking out a woman I'd be like, "Yea she's pretty cute/pretty," and hey if she's really hot, then of course I'll say she's hot. Why do guys have to get so defensive about this?
I even told Yangkia that at times, I have a guy friend that says that this celebrity, whose a guy, is pretty hot. I first thought it was funny but then hey! It's cool to know that you find some guys very attractive. That doesn't mean you're into stuff about that. You're just realizing their outer beauty as many other women do to other attractive women in the world. Then we both came to a consensus that this guy friend could and possibly metrosexual but whatever. Then he said that I should be more girly. How in the world can I get even more girly than this, right? So I asked, "How do I become more girly?"
"You could act more blonde."
"So only blondes are girly girls?"
"Well guys find blonds more attractive."
"But don't most people stereotype blondes as dumb. So are you implying that girly girls are dumb."
And so the conversation about masculinity and better wives and then Yangkia didn't want to argue no more. A question that went constantly through my head was, why do some guys act so needy now? Are gender roles in relationships turning around now?
Gosh It has been a really long day.
Day 22, 23, 24, 25
Day 22: I went in and did my office hours. Man, there has been a lot of stuff that's happened in the past for HSO. I hope I can do my best!
Atwood Afterdark: Going back to your childhood, was pretty fun. We made a stuff toy animal, our own cups(sippie/mug), puppets, had some snow cones/corn dogs, and took some really cool pics.
Day 23: Saturday's event, Spring Festival!
Day 24: I did wear the polo but I forgot to take pictures. I bought an eggroll from the bake sale. The were fundraising for the new Somali families that were coming in with very low income. The money would go to help those families with housing and food.
Day 25: Primary colors day! I couldn't find my denim leggings from Wal-mart. I'm sad. I don't know where I put them. Well have a great day!
Atwood Afterdark: Going back to your childhood, was pretty fun. We made a stuff toy animal, our own cups(sippie/mug), puppets, had some snow cones/corn dogs, and took some really cool pics.
Day 23: Saturday's event, Spring Festival!
Day 24: I did wear the polo but I forgot to take pictures. I bought an eggroll from the bake sale. The were fundraising for the new Somali families that were coming in with very low income. The money would go to help those families with housing and food.
Day 25: Primary colors day! I couldn't find my denim leggings from Wal-mart. I'm sad. I don't know where I put them. Well have a great day!
Thursday, April 22, 2010
GRRRRRRRRRREAT NEWS!
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
When did..
we get so serious?
we want to go to college?
we ever get a say in our true liberation and freedom?
we come adults?
Lingering and pondering. I truly wish I was still a kid. I wanna go to Neverland and never grow up!
we want to go to college?
we ever get a say in our true liberation and freedom?
we come adults?
Lingering and pondering. I truly wish I was still a kid. I wanna go to Neverland and never grow up!
Day 20,21: Primary Colors&funky hair, Scarf
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
HSO Banquet/Picnic 4/19/10
New+Old Board: Koulu(in blue), Chin(red cap), Amee(black tee), Noublia(red dress shirt), Yer(hershey sweater), Maisee(sunglasses), Dia(red shirt), & Cheekue(white polo), the others(TouYee and Xee) are hiding behind Dr.Yang
HSO's SUPERSTAR: MEXAI XIONG!!
ME& Dr. Wong(boo-hoo she's leaving to Alaska!!)
HSO THANKS FOR THE AWESOME YEAR!
HSO's SUPERSTAR: MEXAI XIONG!!
ME& Dr. Wong(boo-hoo she's leaving to Alaska!!)
HSO THANKS FOR THE AWESOME YEAR!
Monday, April 19, 2010
Day 17,18,19
So I went to Albertville w/ Sia&Luey. It was so cute watching them flirt and buy each other stuff. lol!
On Sunday we talked about sex at church. I love this new series. It's opened my eyes to everything and made everything a little bit more clearer. When we got home, we cleaned the yard. hard hard work. Sia wanted to go fishing w/ Luey and his friends so we did. Didn't catch any fish although I broke the fishing pole. That was fun. DQ was fun too. I got the Raspberry Truffle blizzard. How yummy! Well I'm too lazy to take pictures today but it's just Polo w/ heels day. :D
HAVE A GREAT DAY!
On Sunday we talked about sex at church. I love this new series. It's opened my eyes to everything and made everything a little bit more clearer. When we got home, we cleaned the yard. hard hard work. Sia wanted to go fishing w/ Luey and his friends so we did. Didn't catch any fish although I broke the fishing pole. That was fun. DQ was fun too. I got the Raspberry Truffle blizzard. How yummy! Well I'm too lazy to take pictures today but it's just Polo w/ heels day. :D
HAVE A GREAT DAY!
Friday, April 16, 2010
Day 16: Day of Silence!
The National Day of Silence brings attention to anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment in schools. Each year the event has grown, and now hundreds of thousands of students participate to encourage schools and classmates to address the problem of anti-LGBT behavior. Founded in 1996, the Day of Silence has become the largest single student-led action towards creating safer schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Find out more about the Day of Silence at the links below.
-dayofsilence.org
-dayofsilence.org
Thursday, April 15, 2010
04152010.
So this is all I remember so far:
So for some reason, I had a friend that let me borrow their 4runner to go see Xue. So I decided to take Sia with me because it was summer.
So, Me and Sia were coming out of a grocery store that looked so much like Food-4-less(Merced, CA). We were all happy because we were gonna go visit Xue and have fun. We were discussing what we should do in Madison and I was tell her about Xue's family, especially how cute and adorable his niece is.
So once we got into the car and close the doors, this black dude tries to open the passenger door. I locked the doors so he couldn't do anything. It scared the heck out of me and Sia. We were screaming and screamed at the dude to go away but he didn't so I backed up really fast(don't worry, I didn't hit any of the other cars) and went. Then all these older looking guys(about 40+) surrounded the car and was telling Sia to come out. I was like, "OMFG, what the heck is happening in here!!?" So I turned left and went onto the road.
I was so freaked out. I think I was hyperventilating. Sia was super freaked out. We were discussing why those guys would be after SIA!!? Then we came to one conclusion, Paul wanted her back. ahhh! It was so crazy. She mentioned talking to him a couple weeks back and said that he really missed her and wanted to marry her. I was shocked because I thought she lost all contact with him. I was kind of scared for her. I told her she had to report this incident and stuff but she said to just let it go! I was like, "Girl, those guys look so scary! If you don't, then I will!!!"
Then Alex woke me up at 725
So for some reason, I had a friend that let me borrow their 4runner to go see Xue. So I decided to take Sia with me because it was summer.
So, Me and Sia were coming out of a grocery store that looked so much like Food-4-less(Merced, CA). We were all happy because we were gonna go visit Xue and have fun. We were discussing what we should do in Madison and I was tell her about Xue's family, especially how cute and adorable his niece is.
So once we got into the car and close the doors, this black dude tries to open the passenger door. I locked the doors so he couldn't do anything. It scared the heck out of me and Sia. We were screaming and screamed at the dude to go away but he didn't so I backed up really fast(don't worry, I didn't hit any of the other cars) and went. Then all these older looking guys(about 40+) surrounded the car and was telling Sia to come out. I was like, "OMFG, what the heck is happening in here!!?" So I turned left and went onto the road.
I was so freaked out. I think I was hyperventilating. Sia was super freaked out. We were discussing why those guys would be after SIA!!? Then we came to one conclusion, Paul wanted her back. ahhh! It was so crazy. She mentioned talking to him a couple weeks back and said that he really missed her and wanted to marry her. I was shocked because I thought she lost all contact with him. I was kind of scared for her. I told her she had to report this incident and stuff but she said to just let it go! I was like, "Girl, those guys look so scary! If you don't, then I will!!!"
Then Alex woke me up at 725
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Day 14: Scarf Day!
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Day 10,11,12
Friday, April 9, 2010
Day 9
Sorry I can't wear Hmong clothes today. Dammit! Well Popo's Surprise Party turned out successful because the great hostesses. :D
Well have a great weekend! :D
Well have a great weekend! :D
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Day 8: Dress/skirt over pants day! :D
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Monday, April 5, 2010
Day 3,4,5!
Yes this weekend was super fun. Xuey came for a quick visit and I spent Sunday with the family. It was fun. Easter has not been this fun since I was a kid. We played volleyball and that was super fun. The losers had to run 2 laps around the volleyball boundary and I was on the losing team most of the day. :( Oh well. So today is polo with a vest day. **PICTURE BELOW**
HAVE A GREAT DAY YO!
HAVE A GREAT DAY YO!
Friday, April 2, 2010
Thursday, April 1, 2010
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